Cheating Men – Why They Do it and How to Get Through It
Have you ever had a man cheat on you and wondered why he did it and how to get through it? Are you completely confused as to why a man would betray you like this? Are you wondering if you may have missed some signs indicating that he would do it? The following will help you understand a little bit about why men turn to cheating. The simple reason men cheat is because they are incredibly unhappy. You may wonder why your man never came to you and told you he is unhappy. Even though he is the one who cheated, unhappiness usually comes because of both parties.
Men become unhappy in a relationship when they begin to feel neglected and underappreciated. Do you realize your relationship losing that special feeling it once had? Have you both reached the point where you hardly ever have anything nice to say to each other? Have you fallen into the pit of constant complaints about your guy? All of these things contribute to unhappiness.
It’s very difficult to overcome the hurt of being cheated on. No matter how much effort you put into moving forward, that pain seems to follow you around wherever you go. If this is the case, the relationship will not survive. If both parties are willing to work hard to make it work, and if you are able to forgive and forget his infidelity, there is hope. Reminding him of it and dwelling on it will not help. One must forgive and forget.
Now you have a little more of an understanding as to why they do it and how to get through it. Everyone progresses and feels differently when it comes to pain. It is not necessarily true that a man who cheats will definitely cheat again. You need to think about whether you are willing to forgive him and move past it. If you trust that it won’t happen again, the relationship is worth fighting for.