Play Hard to Get – Get Him to Chase You
If you play hard to get, that will discourage a man, right? WRONG. This is one of the most effective ways to take your relationship to the next level. Are you tired of trying different methods, all of which do not work? Are you tired of being alone and want to find true love and romance? Try this advice and make him chase you. Play hard to get.
Male psychology says that this really works if you want to attract men. And why is that? It is because men are like dogs. Cute and adorable. Ok, that was a joke. But they are like dogs in that both like to chase. Have you ever seen a dog chase a car that is parked? No. But as soon as the car starts to go away, there is something in the dog that makes it want to chase. The same is true for men. The chasing is a real attraction.
So, good dating advice says to play hard to get. But you want to combine it with showing personal attention, if you want to make a guy fall in love with you and if you want to make him commit to you fully. This is how it works:
A� When you see him, maybe at a party, do not go over and talk to him right away. Give him a chance to chase you. After awhile, you can go over and talk to him. But make it sweet and short. Then go away and talk to someone else. By going over and talking to him, you are showing that you are interested; you are giving him encouragement to chase, but then by keeping it short you are giving him something to chase. These 2 tactics together can make guy fall in love with you.
A� Here is another strategy. When he gives you his phone number, do not call him right away. You will seem to be needy. Wait maybe a week. Then call. But keep it short and enjoyable. Then do not call again for a long time. This gives him an opportunity to chase and it tells him that you have a life of your own. This makes you very attractive as a girlfriend and wife.
A� When he asks you out, do not always be available. Sometimes say no. Do not often break other plans to go out with him. This lets him know that you are not needy and that you are a happy, active person. But always express regret that you are not available and that you would love to go out with him another time.
A� Do you grasp the strategy? You do not want him to think that you are not interested. So, do let him know that you are. But do not throw yourself at him either. Make sure that he knows that you have your own life. This will give him something to chase.
Now you are ready. Try these tactics and watch how easy it is to make him chase you. Play hard to get.