Gain Power in Your Relationship – And Do Not Ask His Permission For it
Romance, love, a boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate and to live happily ever after are things that you want. To gain power in your relationship is also important in your dating life.
Did you make a guy fall in love with you? Did you find Mr. Right, you soul mate, someone who will not dump you or break up with you because you have your own opinions and needs? But do you find that he is a little too controlling? You need to gain power in your relationship.
You want more than a sexual hookup. You want more than friends with benefits arrangements. You want a man who will send flowers and chocolates, and go to a chick flick with you. But the relationship has to be fair and make both people happy. You must gain power in your relationship.
Just Tell Him. Let him know how you feel. Do not be afraid to disagree with him or to let him know that you do not want to do something that he has planned. Be kind but firm. Stick to your guns. Let him know that this relationship is not all about him; it is about both of you. This will help you gain power in your relationship.
Are You Afraid? Are you afraid of him? Are you afraid he will be angry? Are you afraid that he will be physically violent if you do not do things his way all the time? Then run, run, run, as fast and as far as you can; protect yourself.
Is He Mr. Right? If so, he will see the reasonableness of what you are doing. He will want to share it with you – you will gain power in your relationship.